⨠Have you ever stopped to ask yourself: Why do I live where I live? Or why do I work where I work?
These questions might seem unrelated at first, but when you dig deeper, youāll see theyāre often closely intertwined.
I believe that, for most people, their answers fall into one of two categories:
They live where they do because of a job opportunity.
They work where they do because itās close to where they live.
Letās unpack both scenarios:
šļø You follow a job opportunity:
Youāve studied or trained in a specific field, and naturally, you seek jobs in that industry. When hunting for roles, you might apply to companies in different citiesāeven ones you know little about. Eventually, you move to wherever you land a job that fits your career goals. Maybe you love this new location⦠or maybe not. If you donāt, youāre stuck choosing between staying for the job or leaving for a place youād rather call home.
š” You stay where you are:
Youāre attached to your current locationāmaybe because itās where you grew up, or your family and friends are nearby. When job hunting, you only look for positions available in your area. But what if your industry isnāt big where you live? Or the roles available donāt quite match your goals? You might find yourself settling for a job you donāt really want, simply because itās the best option nearby.
š” Have you ever found yourself in one of these situations?
Chances are, you have. Most of us have been in one of these scenarios at some point in lifeāor maybe even both.
My Personal Journey
Over the years, Iāve experienced the highs and lows of both situations:
2011: I moved near Paris for my first job after graduating. I didnāt love the role, and I didnāt love the city either. ā
2012: I decided to move to a place I loved: Aix-en-Provence in the South of France. But again, the job didnāt fully meet my expectations. ā
2015: I landed a role I genuinely enjoyed, still in the South of France. My long daily commute wasnāt ideal, but I felt fulfilled and thought Iād finally found a balance. ā
2017: My company offered me the chance to do the same job in Miamiāa city I knew almost nothing about. I took the leap, and luckily, I ended up loving both the job and the city! ā
As you can see, Iāve experienced it allāthe ups and downs of moving for a job and choosing a job based on where I lived, each with its own outcomes.
š Where does this leave us?
Hereās the thing: very few of us intentionally ask ourselves this question:
āWhere can I live and do something that truly fulfills me?ā
Many people settle for just one good outcomeāliving where they want or doing work they enjoy. Over time, this compromise can lead to frustration, burnout, or even resentment, affecting mental health and relationships.
The Power of Remote Work
š This is why Iām such a big advocate of remote work. For generations, people had no choice but to work where they lived. Moving for a job was often out of reach for financial, cultural, or logistical reasons. (And letās be real, it still is for many and I am well aware of my privileges.)
But today, remote work opens the door to a more intentional life. It allows you to live where you feel happiest while pursuing a career you genuinely enjoyāeven if those two places are thousands of miles apart.
At the end of the day, life is about intentional choices. Whether itās rethinking where you live, how you work, or both, itās never too late to realign your life with what truly fulfills you. š
Remote work might not be the answer for everyone, but it offers a powerful opportunity to rewrite the script. So, take a moment to ask yourself:
What truly matters to meāand how can I create a life that reflects that?




